Thursday, May 15, 2008

Raped by dad - Who to BLAME?

Four-year-old raped by dad

JOHOR BARU: A 27-year-old man allegedly raped his four-year-old daughter repeatedly at their home in Kangkar Pulai.
The contract worker’s heinous act was uncovered when the victim complained of pain in her private parts.
When the mother, in her 20s, inspected her, she found blood in her daughter’s private parts.
The girl then told her that her father had done things to her, which prompted the mother to lodge a police report.
Nusajaya OCPD Supt Abd Aziz Ahmad said police picked up the suspect on Tuesday.
“Initial investigations revealed that the suspect committed the offence repeatedly at their home while the wife was busy taking care of their two other children.
“The victim has been sent to the Sultanah Aminah Hospital for treatment and a medical check-up,” he said.
Supt Abd Aziz said the suspect might have committed the offence since early this month.
He added that the suspect also has a six-year-old son and a three-month-old baby.



The article above is from The Star Online, as I read it for a few minutes my mind just blacked out. I have no idea what to think and I cannot comprehend what I was reading. I was truly shocked to by bones, how can this happen?

A father whose responsibility is to protect your children from all the bad and evil things in this world raped his own flesh and blood. Even worst is that this man forced himself onto an innocent, clueless little girl. For god's sake she is 4 years old. They don't know anything, they are pure, innocent and they represent all the goodness in this world; and this man the so called father had the heart to do that to her. I just don't get it, what do you see in a 4 year old girl? What is there to be sexually attracted you to her? If it was a teenager or someone who has reached puberty then it is a different story. The question is who do you blame?


Is the wife/mother responsible for not satisfying the husband? Or the community and religion for the lack of education. Should we blame the media for showing too many sexual related movies? Honestly, the only person you can blame is the father, a sick twisted pervert who cannot control himself.

Whenever, I read these kinds of news my heart dies a little. Our world has already been tainted by so many evils and now we have rape of a 4 yr old girl happened in out own country.........what is wrong with people these days?

1 comment:

Ruis Jugah said...

bro Ahmad

I am lost for words too over such deed. Who are too blame? It is a difficult question though I believe it relates to culture - esp the flaws of cultures.

In most cultures incest is taboo. Rape is crime. In today world crimes are rampant. In Klang Valley we event have snatch thiefs a.k.a dangerous murderers. Imagine, to kill someone just for their handbags! We have a sick society. I think the government should build bigger prison and lock them up. We have no choice but to agree that better part of our income tax money to be used to build and support prisons. It's better than having the criminals infesting the streets.

Going back to taboo - when I was kid, I just simply believe taboos but as an adult, I often wonder and believe there are so many silly taboos. What more is that most of the taboos are associated with superstitions which can be over ruled by religious beliefs.

Incest is a taboo in many cultures. The answer to the question of the father raping his daughter - obviously such taboo somehow missed out in his upbringing. He probably is taught many other complicated things which over look the fundamental values.